Dede Wilsey

Diane Buchanan "Dede" Wilsey (b. 1944) is a San Francisco socialite, Republican donor [1] and philanthropist, and the widow of San Francisco businessman Al Wilsey. She is the chairman emeritus of the Fine Arts Museums of San Francisco.

Dede Wilsey
Born
Diane Dow Buchanan

1944 (age 76–77)
Washington, D.C.
EducationConnecticut College
Spouse(s)
John Traina
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(m. 1965; div. 1980)​

Alfred Wilsey
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(m. 1981; died 2002)​
ChildrenTodd Traina
Trevor Traina
Parent(s)Wiley T. Buchanan Jr.
Ruth Elizabeth Hale
RelativesHerbert Henry Dow (grandfather)

Early life and background

Wilsey was born Diane Dow Buchanan.[2] Her father, Wiley T. Buchanan, Jr., was the U.S. ambassador to Luxembourg and Austria, as well as the White House Chief of Protocol under Dwight Eisenhower.[3]

Her privileged childhood featured summers at the family estate Beaulieu House in Newport, Rhode Island, and in the south of France. When she made her social debut in 1961, as a Connecticut College student, Town & Country Magazine featured her on its cover.[4]

Personal life

She married shipping magnate and art collector John Traina in 1965 and had two sons, Todd and Trevor Traina. Her father was opposed to his daughter's marriage.[3] In 1980, she divorced Traina.

In 1980, she married dairy product[5] and real estate developer[6] Al Wilsey,[7][8][9] who had recently divorced his third wife, Patricia Montandon. She and Wilsey were fixtures on the social axes of San Francisco and Napa Valley, where they maintained a country house. Al Wilsey died in 2002 at age 82.[10]

She remains a prominent figure in the artistic and cultural spheres of San Francisco. In 2005, she raised $190 million to rebuild the earthquake-damaged De Young Museum in Golden Gate Park, one of the largest collective gifts ever made to an American museum.[4] She has raised millions for local causes like the renovation of Grace Cathedral, as well as the establishment of numerous trusts for organizations such as the San Francisco Ballet and the San Francisco Opera.

Controversy

Wilsey is featured prominently in her stepson Sean Wilsey's memoir Oh the Glory of it All, in which the author described her as his "evil stepmother",[11] and contended that she married Al Wilsey because of his wealth.[12]

In March 2013, Wilsey was accused of creating turmoil among the staff at the Fine Arts Museums of San Francisco, following the death of its longtime director, John Buchanan. She was accused of allegedly using her affluence and influence as board president to fire many long-term curators, using museum personnel to tend to her personal collection, and forcing a show of her son's photos.[13]

In July 2016, it was reported that Wilsey was stepping down from her position as lifetime board president "after the museums paid a $2 million settlement to a former high-ranking executive who said Wilsey had her ousted for revealing alleged misspending of museum money."[14] However, as of May 2019 she was still listed on the FAMSF website as President and Chair of the museums' governing boards.

References
  1. Matier, Phil (2019-08-28). "SF top Dem Campos wants Shanti to pull award to Dede Wilsey — cites GOP fundraiser". San Francisco Chronicle. Retrieved 2020-01-08.
  2. Zinko, Carolyne (2005-04-05). "Memoir by son of S.F. socialites should set tongues wagging -- and other writers say it's not just trash talk". San Francisco Chronicle. Retrieved 2010-05-02.
  3. "Diane D. Buchanan To Be Wed Today". The New York Times. 1965-06-19. p. 15.
  4. Hamlin, Jesse (2005-10-11). "PROFILE: Dede Wilsey / De Young built on one woman's charm, savvy / Undaunted by 2 failed bond measures, Dede Wilsey led $190 million campaign". San Francisco Chronicle. Retrieved 2010-05-02.
  5. "Wilsey, Bennett Company, a Corporation, Petitioner, v. Federal Maritime Commission and United States of America, Respondents, 315 F.2d 374 (9th Cir. 1963)". Justia Law. Retrieved 3 February 2021.
  6. "Fraser v. Comm'r of Internal Revenue , 64 T.C. 41". CaseText Search + Citator. Retrieved 3 February 2021.
  7. "Home on Stanyan: 1930-1939". St. Ignatius College Prep. Retrieved 3 February 2021.
  8. Rubens, Lisa. "Gerson Bakar, "Real Estate Developer and Philanthropist"" (PDF). [PDF] Regional Oral History Office University of California. Retrieved 3 February 2021.
  9. "Al Wilsey (1919-2002)". Find A Grave. Retrieved 3 February 2021.
  10. Holson, Laura M. (24 September 2016). "Dede Wilsey Is the Defiant Socialite". The New York Times. Retrieved 17 October 2019.
  11. Wadler, Joyce (2005-05-15). "A Tale of Diamonds and Mud". The New York Times. p. 1. Retrieved 2010-05-02.
  12. Wadler, Joyce (2005-05-17). "Society queen, evil stepmother or both?". The New York Times.
  13. Cohen, Patricia (2013-03-16). "Turmoil at Fine Arts Museums of San Francisco". The New York Times.
  14. Matier & Ross (July 24, 2016). "Dede Wilsey leaving top museums job amid strife over payout". sfchronicle.com.
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